An EDA Member Works the Steps (Big Book 517)

Since my first 9th Step, I have had to make amends (and am still making amends) that were far harder and more complex, but in each case I have learned to review my plan with someone before acting, to keep apologies short and simple, to define a plan for restitution I am confident I can keep, and to expect nothing in return. A great burden is lifted when I am able to admit my wrongs sincerely without blaming anyone, and I feel hopeful and happy to be free of self-pity and resentment, for that is exactly what happens! Accountability has set me free.